Brainwave Entrainment

September 19, 2012 By

Note: If you want the Italian version of this article, then email me: miranda@tuscanytech.net. Pardon my English as it is my third language… :)

Ever since I quit my 9-5 job at this telecommunications company at Tuscany, I have started on a journey of self-discovery of sorts by traveling to Baltimore, Beijing and Singapore. My 90-day trip was awesome, and deserves a blog post on its own. During this trip, I acquainted myself with meditation techniques and ways to reach the alpha state as quickly as possible. A friend of mine, Jonathan Smith, introduced me to brainwave entrainment, which is basically audio which helps meditation by tapping into the right frequencies of the brain. If you are into yoga and meditation then you would have no doubt encountered this audio technology before.

My friend Sumit Gupta (who I met in Mumbai) enjoying a brainwave entrainment track while getting into state!

I was once a skeptic of brainwave entrainment, but after I have used it a few times I found that it is a splendid way to get into Alpha state as quickly as possible. I had problems with “mind chatter”, and given that I am an ADHD sufferer it didn’t help much. Jonathan then gave me a set of five CDs (by companies such as Transparent Corp and the Neuroactivator – http://neuroactivator.com) and I casually used them when I meditated. And it was a sure eye opener – I never had such a good meditation session before.

But was it a placebo effect? Well…

Brainwave Entrainment – How It Helps Meditation

For most of us beginners in the art of meditation (and yoga) the biggest challenge is to slip into what they call the “alpha state”. It is the state where you will feel “in the zone”, and the effect is marvelous. This is where meditation music is supposed to help. Brainwave entrainment is a “branch” within the bigger umbrella of meditation music, and itself is divided into different types such as binaural beats and isochronic tones. Many people actually use brainwave entrainment to fall asleep (especially for those who have insomnia problems), and also perform astral projections (as well as Quantum Jumping). For some, it is also a good method to beat depression. In short, brainwave synchronization could well be the next frontier when it comes to aided (and enhanced) meditation, visualization, affirmations and astral projections.

One of my meditation groups in Hong Kong – the Kowloon Meditation Center. Really miss my friends there, especially Taipoh Lin and Hobee Chai!

For me, I use it exclusively to aid meditation. I had out-of-body experiences before, albeit unintentionally, and it remains an area which I will investigate much later in life. For now, I am satisfied with using it to achieve alpha state as quickly as possible. I was first inspired to meditate with background music from this article in the Huffington Post -

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/susan-morales-msw/ways-to-meditation_b_945383.html

I reaped a lot of benefits using these entrainment tracks while I meditate. If you want maximum benefits, however, follow these simple rules:-

  • Make sure that you are using headphones. Brainwave synchronization works best with headphones. It’s good not to get distracted by outside noises.
  • If you have a slight headache, stop listening.
  • Count backwards from 100 – it helps me get into the alpha and theta states during meditation rather quickly.

Give this a try, and let me know if it works for you. :)

Lots of love,

Miranda

PS: If you are in the Tuscany area and you want to link up and talk about meditation in general, get in touch. I am also looking for yoga teachers in this area. Email me!

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How to Meet Girls at Weddings

June 17, 2013 By

Some time in your life, you’ll have to be one single guy who has to attend the wedding of a close guy buddy, a cousin, or a brother. There are two ways that you can take this utterly romantic, tear jerking, life changing event as a way to remind yourself of your failure to snag a woman for a great relationship, or take it as the perfect opportunity to meet women.

While I am not saying it is the perfect time to prey on women, the last thing you’d want is to miss out on all the lovely ladies that are a relationship potential. It could also be a good occasion on how to get your ex back into your arms. It’s not every day of your life that you get to be surrounded by happy women dressed to the nines and filled with a heady, romantic atmosphere as in weddings – unless you’re a wedding singer, waiter or wedding coordinator.

hSo while at it, take your chance and meet potential dates. After making sure you know how to get a girl to like you fast, here are some other great tips:

  • Ask ahead to be seated at the singles table. While this may be unnecessary if you are best buddies with the groom or the bride and they know you might need the extra boost on the love department (or at least save you from being awkwardly seated with lovers), it is best to let this out early on. The best time would be on the day they ask you to be part of their entourage or hand you out their invite.
  • Keep an eye out on everyone who’s at the rehearsal dinner and ask your friend about who’s who and who’s single. Your buddies have been single at some point and they totally understand what you’re trying to achieve. Getting acquainted at the people at the rehearsal will give you an understanding of what (and who) to expect on the day of the wedding.
  • Look and smell your best. Again, you don’t wear some fancy bow on a regular basis so at least make the most out of it while you’re at it. Get a clean shave, style your hair to match the fanciness of the suit. And yes, don’t forget to spray on some nice smelling perfume. You want women to notice you for looking and smelling great, not for your sweat patches in the armpits.

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  • Mingle early on. As soon as the reception starts, go around and make your presence known. And while doing that, please wipe off your creepy stalker guy look. Keep a pleasant, happy smile on your face. The atmosphere of the wedding will make that part easy for you.
  • Be witty and funny on your speech. If you are to make a speech, make sure it does not sound like a total jerk. Keep it classy, you’re at the wedding so move on from the merriment of the bachelor’s party.
  • Look like the sensitive guy. When you muster the courage to talk to women, talk about the wedding and not yourself. This will make you look like the guy who has feelings – talk about how you know the bride and the groom, the feel of the wedding, and how lovely the wedding is.
  • Keep your alcohol levels in check. Nobody wants to be hanging around with the drunken groomsman, but they’d love to talk about you later, mockingly. Remember, everyone will likely get copies of the wedding photos or see it on Facebook. You don’t want to be remembered badly!

If you’re single and don’t know who to bring to a wedding, then make it into an opportunity to meet someone!

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Myths about Women That Men Believe

June 10, 2013 By

Men and women believe a lot of things about each other that are far from true. Some are just minor misconceptions, but some are just way over the top ridiculous. Come to think of it, it’s funny how both sexes end up misunderstanding each other on so many levels even when in truth, there is hardly any difference between the sexes when it comes to their mindset.

Women believe men think with their penises (I seriously hope this is one huge myth), that men would stare at every passing woman’s ass, that men do not want to talk at all and that men want girls to always be heavily primped every single day.

Now I’d be totally happy to see a guy to debunk these bad myths about them. But for now, I’d be happy and content to be debunk certain myths about women that men believe:

  • Women are materialistic. No, not all women are materialistic. Except when you’re dating a gold digger (and hey not all May-December relationships have gold digging involved!), a woman can never be any happier than with some breakfast in bed made by you, a sweet note, a poem on her birthday or even an out-of-tune song on your anniversary. For women, it’s the little efforts that make her love you more.
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Women are not hard to please. It is surprising that little things make them very happy.

  • Women are hard to please. Seriously, after that first statement, women are pretty much easy to please.
  • Women love talking about themselves. No. Women love to talk, yes. But we talk about so many things – anything can interest us. Truth of the matter is, it’s not even the topic that we love about. It’s the conversation itself. It is a manifestation of your holistic interest in us women – that our men like us beyond the sex part. See how women love cuddling and talking after sex? Yes, exactly. It’s our idea of bonding.
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Women love sex, women have libido, women love the cooch-cooch as much as you do.

  • Women are not as interested as sex men are. Au contraire! Women love sex, women have libido, women love the cooch-cooch as much as you do. Maybe even more. What most men lack is the ability to tickle the right spots. No, Misters, women do not get wet when you drop those pants and showcase the package – we’re not all Samantha Joneses around here. Engage in sexy conversations, make love with our imaginations, and the floodgates shall open. Make sure you attract the right women, too. Here are some tips on attracting women the right way.
  • Women want to be the center of your universe but want to be treated equally. I’ve seen and heard a lot of men whine about women asking for too much attention, wanting to be the center of your universe and taking up all your time. Truth is, she just wants her opinion on the big things to matter. She just wants to feel like your equal, but that does not mean you can leave her to do all the chores or that you can leave her to make all the money for the house.

Sweetheart, women are not as complicated as you’d like to believe. I’m sure you’re still thinking about the sex part, so read this. We are simple beings with simple happiness. Any myths you’d like to share? I’d be more than happy to correct that for you!

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Dating on Vacation

June 1, 2013 By

Sun, sand, sea, and a lot, lot, lot of girls to choose from – this is what summer vacation means. Any vacation, in general, is always a great time to meet women that are usually out of your local radar for very apparent reasons. And, men and women alike, have been wired by Hollywood to see vacations as a chance to meet up, date up, and make memories with on  your holiday.

This very special post is written by one of our up-and-coming guest bloggers. His name is Matt G(SIBG.com website), and his article is going to be helpful for those who are planning on getting some R and R by going on a holiday. Read more and get your fill!

[dcV[/dc]acation dating is so much different from regular local dating, thanks to the holiday atmosphere and probably, a different place with people different from your own city or country. And thus, it takes a different approach. Here are some tips when you’re dating while on vacation:

Explore.

You’re young, you’re (hopefully) single, and you’re looking to meet young women your age. Well then go ahead and by all means try to meet girls. Go to the local bar, the museum, the scenic spots, the most popular restaurant, or the local events. If you’re going on peak holiday season, events and hangouts like night markets and street parties are likely to be held somewhere around town. You’ll never run out of reasons to go out.

Love on the Beach

Be more confident.

This is a new place. No one knows you got dumped outside of McDonald’s last year. Or that you pissed your pants in elementary school. 99% of the people in this place don’t know you and thus you can walk around more confidently. You don’t have to lie because the internet makes this world smaller than it is so they’ll find out sooner or later that you are the barista and not the owner of your local café. But you can totally ditch your very introverted self, leave it at home, and wear a more confident vacation mask. Even if you screw up on dating, they hardly would remember (unless you mess up big time).

Dress up well.

Look presentable to the ladies. This tip is true even for regular dating days. Tip: Don’t screw things up by wearing clothes that will make you look like you’re from the 30s. Please.

Practice caution.

You’re new, you’re foreign most likely, and you don’t know the ins and outs of the land. You may end up hooking up with a con-woman or something. Most of the tragic endings of vacations come from careless flirting and dating with total strangers. Don’t go home with a total stranger or at least leave half of your cash at the hotel. Keep your valuables safe and always keep an ID in your pocket JUST TO BE SAFE.

Enjoy.

The most attractive faces are those that are happiest. You’re on vacation, how often do you get that chance, right? Get out there and enjoy you freedom and the money you spent on it.  Making a girl like you fast depends on you entirely, and how much you enjoy your own company. A guy who’s clearly having fun is definitely more eye-catching than a guy who spends hours on the bar trying to catch the attention of every bikini-clad girl.

Stay safe, have fun, be confident. These are the keys to happy, safe, successful and memorable dating even while on vacation. Enjoy!

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Will May-December Romance Ever Work?

May 24, 2013 By

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris. Clint Eastwood and Dina Ruiz. Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.

Okay, you get it. These couples all have something in common. Each couple has gone separate ways, yes. Well, except for that, they were once in what we call the May-December romance. Others prefer to call it an “affair” but I prefer to call it “romance.” I just think that “affair” sounds harsh, like someone is up to something else rather than a serious relationship. It’s just me.

May-December romance is a relationship wherein the couple has a considerable age gap between them. Before, it was usually the man being a lot older than the woman. But as time goes by, and people are being more open about relationships and gender issues, the term applies to just any couple that has a big age gap between them. As I tried to do a little research, this kind of relationship is called as such because one is perceived to be in the “spring” (May) of his or her life while the other is already in “winter” (December). Very interesting, right? I don’t know why they chose May and December. They could have chosen March-February to indicate a greater gap. But I digress.

Personally, I think I get more attracted with men who are at least a decade older than me than guys who are of the same age. That doesn’t mean I didn’t date guys my age. I did! I even dated a few who were a bit younger than me.

So why the oldies? I guess it’s the maturity of how they handle situations. Most, if not all, of the older men I have met are just cool about everything. I’d have to be frank — I hate drama. Been there, done that. But it’s not my cup of tea. While other women enjoy the “attention” they get from arguing with their partners about small stuff, I prefer to not hear from him while I get some fresh air, too, then settle things later.

I don’t what it is about older men, really. Could it be seduction? Using “seduction” programs like this is then very effective. At least on me.

You see, not all May-December relationships are bound to reach the dead end. It’s just like any other relationship that needs to be cared for and nurtured for it to grow.

Take Woody Allen and Soon-Yi Previn, Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas,  Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart, Jay-Z and Beyonce, and the very famous Brangelina for example. It could be challenging if you think about it, given the extreme personalities the couple may have. But even couples of the same age can have totally different personalities!

Making it Work

If you are thinking of getting into a May-December romance or are already in one, these tips might help you and your partner live happily ever after:

  • Open Communication

One of the most common challenges of being in a May-December relationship is how to communicate with each other, in a way that both parties will understand each other better. Heck, it’s every couple’s problem all right. It is also important to talk face to face or on the phone (not SMS) to let the other know of your true emotions. Sometimes SMS, if not written carefully (which is almost always the case), fire up a conversation due to misinterpretation. So, find time even for quick coffee dates to let each other know how you feel about things.

  • Compromise

When you are the younger one in the relationship, you tend to be a brat. When you are the older one, you are inclined to think that you should be the boss. Try reversing the situation sometimes and spoil your older partner. If you are the older one, try listening to your younger partner’s advice.

  • Be You

Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to try to please others. Whether it’s his friends or family, just be yourself. He or she loves you for who you are, and it should stay that way. If your partner thinks you should be someone else, then consider it a red flag.

  • Learn From One Another

One of the advantages of being in a May-December relationship is the opportunity of learning from each other. It is almost impossible for someone to learn something new from a person who is so much like him or herself. So take advantage of the differences you may have and transform them into learning tools for both of you.

I miss dating. I mean I’ve dated in Tuscany but not much here in Florence. I think I’m still groping my way into it.

Although May-December romance has raised countless eyebrows, don’t let it stop you from getting to know that older guy you dated (who you think is cute, by the way). Whether it’s an older woman and a younger man or the other way around, don’t let age stand in the way. He might turn out to be the perfect mate for you. Remember, the fate of any relationship depends on the two people who agreed to be in that relationship so don’t seek validation from others.

XOXO,

Miranda

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Winning Back Your Ex

May 13, 2013 By

Ciao amore mio!

Two weeks ago I blogged about moving to Florence. The past two weeks has been awesome, to say the least. I AM LOVING FLORENCE!  It is a very romantic place, you’d like to fall in love over and over again. If you want to make a girl like you fast, I’d say bring her here!

Speaking of love, I’d like to write about how to win your ex back. You might ask, “What for?” But some loves are just worth giving a second chance. I know I sound so cheesy. I am a self-professed hopeless romantic. ;)

You see, breakups are never easy on anybody. Sometimes, we get that feeling that we actually need to get the other person back before we can totally let go. Other times, we’ve moved on and loved another and lost again before we rediscover our exes and totally want them back in our lives again. After all, love is sweeter the second time around.

Some broken relationships are meant to be mended.

Some broken relationships are meant to be mended.

But is trying to get back with an ex really worth it? What are the things you need to consider and think about before moving towards this unstable situation? You could take quizzes to find out or just brainstorm with yourself to get more personalized results. Here are some tips for men who are thinking of trying to get back their ex-girlfriends:

 

  • The last scenario – Before deciding to win back your ex, you have to take a careful look back at how you guys ended. Girls forgive but hardly forget so if you’ve done something really loathe-worthy in the past, you have to have the guts to face her and ask her out again or just forget about the whole thing. This is especially true if your reason for breaking up was you were caught cheating. Have the guts, lose the pride, and go for it or go home. But if it was something else other than cheating, try to see if that factor is still going to affect anything you would start today.
  • How you treat each other – Other ex-couples remain in an ‘open relationship’ after they breakup and still go out sans the commitment and the title. Some get into a total forget-you-forever state that is colder than the cold war. Others remain at a very volatile situation a la North and South Korea and a clash could come at any point in interaction. Others have fully moved on and become fully civil with each other. This would give you a good view at whether or not you should and you can get back together.
  • Her current status – If she is already in a relationship, by all means please do not get into a very complicated tangle of lives and love. The last thing you want is cause a rift in their relationship and break some other guy’s heart. But if she’s single, then go back to the first two issues.
  • How you really feel about her – This is the point where I say DO NOT DO IT FOR REVENGE. Vengeance is never worth it. Only do it if you truly want her and that you really want to give yourselves and your relationship another chance. Anything less than that, like boredom, is not worth the hassle of things. Remember, you broke up for a reason. If that reason can still outweigh your desire to be back together, then you might want to forget about the whole thing. It might just be loneliness, or just out of boredom or fear of being single that makes you want to get back together. And trust me, with that reason, your relationship is not heading anywhere else other than the same place you had been: broken up.

Love is lovelier and sweeter the second time around. But it could also be more bitter and more difficult. If and when you decide to win her back, here is a good resource on how to successfully do it.

Buona fortuna!

 - Miranda

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A Quickie

May 1, 2013 By

Hello! I don’t know if I’ve mentioned it in my blog before but I’m moving! I am going to live in a new place in Florence(it has a courtyard) :-D :-D I am so excited. That explains why I haven’t been writing for the past couple of days– I am just so busy. Florence, for those of you who aren’t too familiar with Italy’s geography, is Tuscany’s capital city.

This new place, aside from having a courtyard, also has a garden, a balcony, a terrace, and a roof deck. It has all the essentials I’m looking for in an apartment– and all those tiring and long weeks of looking for a place to stay in Florence paid off. I am not complaining! I move in 2 weeks from now, as I have to clear up my old space at my old place. I can’t wait, I can’t wait. Meanwhile– if you’re looking for a place to stay in the Tuscany region, hit me up. My friend is leasing hers to be my roommate in Florence! :-D

I wish I  can meet all of you, my dear readers, sometime soon! Right now I am checking out Trip Advisor’s page on Florence– gotta get familiarized with my new home. Til next time, I’ll write real soon! Ciao!

Miranda x

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How to Make a Girl Like You Fast

April 3, 2013 By

Do you ever wonder why you aren”t succeeding in the world of dating? Would you like to learn how to make a girl like you fast? Do you have zero confidence when it comes to making that first move? If this is the case, then read on and learn some tips on getting a girlfriend and how to make a girl like you in no time at all.

 1. Focus.

One of the main reasons why you probably fail while learning how to make a girl like you is because you do not focus on your target enough. You need to keep in mind that girls crave for attention and therefore need to feel that a guy is completely interested in them before they even start showing interest in the guy to begin with.

Unfortunately, guys aren”t really known for focusing on their words and actions, and this is what gets them into trouble. In fact, some guys don”t even realize that they are already acting in the wrong way the minute they lose a girl”s attention during a conversation.

Remember: if you act or say the wrong things during a conversation with a girl, then you might offend her without even realizing it and lose all of your chances to learn how to make that girl like you altogether.

 2. Be natural.

Another thing you need to know is that girls do not like guys who try too hard. What girls actually look for in a guy is confidence. They also want to find guys who can simply act like themselves around them. Usually, when a guy acts natural around a girl, he gives off a sincere and nice vibe. Guys who try too hard to make an impression on a girl, on the other hand, only end up pushing her away because of his unnatural ways.

So, if you like a girl, just let things happen the natural way. Be thankful that you are able to spend a few moments with her and then try to impress her with your actual personality. If she accepts you for who you are and likes you for who you are, then you”ve got everything in the bag.

 3. Do not be clingy.

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Acting and knowing that you don”t need a girl”s approval is guaranteed to grab her attention. This might sound strange, but if a girl thinks that she might not win you over, then she will show more interest in you in the long run. So, do not be clingy just because she has talked to you a couple of times. Instead, show her that there are other fish in the sea that could be interested in you and she will make her move on you without you even having to do anything about it.

 4. Raise your standards.

Show girls that you have very high standards by ignoring gorgeous girls altogether. This will instantly make you more attractive in girls” eyes and make them work harder for your attention. By doing this, you will not just learn how to make a girl like you, either; you will actually succeed in the matter, as well.

Dating may be tiring and confusing, and can lead to a lot of screw-ups. But don”t worry– you”d find the right one for you soon. Keep it here for more dating tips and advice. Til next time!

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October Man Sequence – Heard Of It?

March 13, 2013 By

OK, so this is my first post in 2013. Way overdue, I know! Been busy with my yoga center here in Tulliano, and we have been signing up new customers at a rapid rate. In fact, I’ve just signed up three newbies this afternoon. Stacey, Sonali and Raul – if you’re reading this, then a big welcome!

Last week I had received a rather angry email from Susan, a longtime reader of this blog about something that she has stumbled upon called the “October Man Sequence“. She was initially referring to this blog post I made about the paradox about dating and relationships and then did some research online about it. She found the aforementioned technique which purportedly makes women fall in love in as little as 20 minutes using a combination of female psychology (sometimes known as the female loophole) techniques and hypnosis tricks such as “fractionation“. So I put on my spying hat and then went on a research spree online… and so here’s what I found.

October Man Sequence – All Hype, Or The Real Deal?

I found some articles at Wikipedia about the technique, and learned that the October Man Sequence was created by this “pickup artist” called Twotimer. Can’t find out more about this man though. There’s a video of somebody babbling about the technique on YouTube (rather incoherently I must say) which was not useful. I hit the proverbial pay dirt when I found a dedicated website on the October Man Sequence at http://OctoberManSequence.org – it looks like somebody has put in hours of work to compile everything they need to know about this “covert” dating technique.

So what does the technique entails? Well, to the layman (i.e. ME!) it’s all about using covert persuasion techniques in order to attract women. These are the same techniques that you see everyday that are used prevalently in advertising. Rooted in tested and proven psychology theory, the OMS can be used to persuade almost anybody, and you don’t actually have to use it in dating and love exclusively. I can imagine using it at the office to gain “power” and get that coveted corner office…

-Miranda the Covert Seducer

Finally, the folks at OctoberManSequence.org didn’t pay me for this blog post. Just so you know. :)

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Christmas Treat!

December 24, 2012 By

Stumbled upon this particular magnificent piece of live performance by Pink Martini (cover of One Night In Napoli) -

Happy Christmas – and see you in 2013!

Much love,

Miranda :)

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Did I Just Screw Up? :)

December 18, 2012 By

Following up from our previous article on dating (read this if you haven’t done so already), we now talk about the common dating mistakes made by men. Shout outs to my girlfriends Bella Russo and Monique Fabrizio for contributing to this article! Bella and Mona are veterans of the Tuscany dating scene, and are well qualified to talk about this at length.

Did I Just Screw Up? Common Dating Mistakes Made By Men

  • Rushing Into Things

Dating is a process and getting into a relationship does not often happen overnight. If it does, there is a high chance that it’s not going to be a healthy one. Besides, most girls don’t like it when guys rush things up. It would make them feel that you are not serious and are just playing around. The dating period is the best time to get to know each other. The longer the getting-to-know-each-other period, the better. Unless you don’t want to lead things into a serious relationship, don’t rush a girl. Big mistake it is.

  • Underestimating a Woman (especially a Tuscanian!)

Women are like bamboo trees. They look like they can easily be blown away or fall down but they can manage surprisingly. Underestimating women is another common mistake of a guy when dating a girl. Walking a long way, for example, can seem very tiring so you don’t want to ask a woman for a walk. That way you are already underestimating. The truth is that most women actually find it nice to have a walk with their date. Just try it and you’ll be surprised. Besides, it can also be a better way to know each other more.

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  • Getting Too Formal

Formality is a good thing (in general). But when it comes to dating, it can be a bit scary. Formality in dating means plotting things in their exact places. Most girls find that really bossy and scary. Here are some things we can suggest to bury the it’s-very-formal-it-scares kind of dating.

Plan things ahead in your mind before you see her but don’t tell her those plans. Ask her first what she wants or where she wants to go (important!). But most girls don’t have anything in their mind – call us fickle! :) That will be your chance to suggest your ideas which, of course, you’ve already planned. Make it look like it just popped out from your mind. That way you will make things look spontaneous because most girls think that the best plan is having no plan. Get things a little lighter and crush down the tension by initiating funny conversations or silly accusations. If you got her, don’t feel guilty. It’s just part of your strategy to know her better, and this is a surefire way on how to win her heart like a master seducer!

  • Being Unappreciative

Girls typically find it delightful to be appreciated especially with the way they look with their dress or with their hair. Just so you know, it usually takes a girl forever just to look perfect on your date. Unfortunately, most guys tend to neglect the positive impact of flattery. Some may think that it’s old fashion to flatter a girl with flashy words and that it makes a girl feel they’re being fooled. But to tell you the truth, it is this kind of old fashion that still remains to be one of the most effective way to rock a girl’s world. So don’t forget to tell her “Hey, you look really beautiful with your dress today.” Or “I love your hair, it exactly fits your beautiful personality” and remember to say them with conviction. Here’s a good podcast on being appreciative of your partner.

  • Not having a good piece of real estate to show off

Now you want to avoid gold-diggers, but if you have got good properties or valuable real estate to show off, then you’ll do better than 99% of the guys out there. Want some tips on acquiring real estate here in Tuscany? Go here.

That concludes our “dating blog post” series for the time being? Got questions? Get in touch – I can be emailed at miranda@tuscanytech.net. If you are in the area, come visit us at our Meditation Center.

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